‘My aunt is a lesbian and she wants to sleep with me!’

Dear Love Doctor, I need your help. My aunt is a lesbian and she wants to sleep with me. She is my mother’s younger sister and she is very rich because she is married to a politician. My mother sent me from the village to stay with her in Abuja so that she could sponsor my education up to university level. I’ve been living with her for six months now and I observe the way different women come into the house to visit her. If her husband is around, the women will stay in the living room and be chatting with my aunt. But after her husband leaves the house, my aunt will take her female visitor inside her room and lock the door. Now she tells me to cooperate with her if I want to become a university graduate in future. She says that if I don’t cooperate with her I will end up as a failure in life because she won’t use her money to train me. Sometimes in the night when her husband is asleep, she would come inside my room and tell me to suck her breasts and do other erotic things to her. I’ve been doing it for her since last month because I don’t want her to send me back to the village. But now I’m fed up. My parents are very poor in the village. Please what will I do? From Yvonne.

Love Doctor’s Advice:

Dear Yvonne, I’m aware some men are married to lesbians. A lesbian that also sleeps with a man or member of the opposite sex is called a bisexual. Therefore, your aunt is a bisexual. She is evil. Stop doing it with her. However, she is not God and does not hold the key to your destiny.

You don’t have to go through such horror of sexual harassment from a woman like you and a member of your own family for that matter, in order to be a graduate or succeed in life. I suggest you return to your parents and tell them to seek help elsewhere, that is, away from your aunt. You can also choose to learn a trade in the interim, for example, fashion designing or hairdressing so that you can work now and save money to go to school later on.